“At this, the guardian-redeemer said, ‘Then I cannot redeem it because I might endanger my own estate. You redeem it yourself. I cannot do it.’”
(Ruth 4:6)

"When One Says No, God Has a Better Yes"

Ruth 4:6 captures a critical turning point in the story of Ruth and Boaz. The guardian-redeemer next in line declines to redeem Ruth, fearing it might endanger his own estate. While it appears as a rejection, this moment opens the door for Boaz to step in and fulfill God’s redemptive plan. This verse reminds us that when others walk away, God is still working—and His plans are always better than we imagined.

Meditation

“At this, the guardian-redeemer said, ‘Then I cannot redeem it because I might endanger my own estate. You redeem it yourself. I cannot do it.’”
(Ruth 4:6)

This bible verse takes place at the city gate, where legal matters in ancient Israel were settled. Boaz has approached the man who, by tradition, had the first right to redeem Ruth and Naomi's land and family name. To everyone’s surprise, he declines.

At first glance, this seems like a setback—perhaps even a disappointment. But in reality, it was divine orchestration .

1. Not Every “No” Is a Loss

The guardian-redeemer said no because it was too costly. He was more concerned about preserving his own interests than fulfilling his responsibility. But his “no” made room for Boaz—a man of integrity, generosity, and deep faith.

Sometimes, when people walk away from us or decline to help, it feels like rejection. But often, it’s God’s redirection .

• Proverbs 16:9 – “In their hearts humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps.”

• Romans 8:28 – “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him.”

The “no” of man never overrides the “yes” of God.

2. God Provides the Right People at the Right Time

Boaz had shown kindness to Ruth from the beginning. His heart was aligned with God’s heart. He didn’t act out of obligation, but out of love and honor .

God often removes the wrong people to make space for the right ones—those who will reflect His love and fulfill His purposes.

• Psalm 75:6-7 – “No one from the east or the west or from the desert can exalt themselves. It is God who judges: He brings one down, he exalts another.”

• Esther 4:14 – “And who knows but that you have come to your royal position for such a time as this?”

Boaz stepped into the moment God had prepared for him—just as God prepares moments for us, too.

3. Redemption Comes Through God’s Sovereign Hand

The refusal of the first redeemer didn’t derail God’s plan—it revealed it . Through Boaz’s obedience, Ruth became part of the lineage of King David and, eventually, Jesus Christ.

God’s redemptive story is bigger than any one person. When one chapter ends, He is already writing the next.

• Isaiah 55:8-9 – “‘For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,’ declares the Lord.”

• Jeremiah 29:11 – “For I know the plans I have for you... plans to give you hope and a future.”

Even when someone steps out, God steps in.

Bible verse of the day

Prayer

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for reminding me that when others say no or walk away, it doesn’t mean You’ve abandoned me. You are always at work, orchestrating something greater than I can see.

Help me to trust You when doors close, knowing that You are preparing better ones to open. Let me not be discouraged by rejection, but encouraged that You are leading me toward the right people, the right timing, and the right purpose.

Just as You brought Boaz into Ruth’s life, bring the right people into mine—those who will reflect Your heart and honor Your ways. I surrender my plans to Yours, Lord.

In Jesus' name,
Amen.